How To Talk To A Child About Abuse

• Be patient, calm and supportive.
• Keep in mind the child's developmental level. Talk on their level. Use their words for things and short, simple sentences.
• Under-react. Listen without criticism, anger or judgment.
• Watch your own non-verbal cues. Facial expression and body language.
• Don't introduce or suggest names.
• Don't press. When a child stops talking, you stop asking.
• Don't make promises. Examples; "Everything will be okay." "I won't tell anyone." "You won't have to tell anyone else."
• MAKE A REPORT TO EITHER OF THE FOLLOWING:
  • Children's Protective Services: 1-800-252-5400
  • And/or your local law enforcement