How Should I React After the Interview?

Follow their lead. If they don’t bring it up, don’t talk about it, especially with young children.

Be careful not to interrogate, quiz or question the child about the interview or abuse. Any questions you have may be asked of the CPS caseworker or law enforcement investigator.

Do let the child know that talking with the interviewer was the right thing to do and acknowledge the courage it took to do so.

It’s very important that the child be allowed to express his/her feelings. Spending special time with the child may help them share his/her feelings and thoughts with you.

Be calm and supportive. It may be difficult to listen, but the child needs to talk to someone who will believe and support them. Don’t share your feelings of frustration or helplessness with the child.

Do not lead the child to believe that the interview is the only part of the legal process in which they are involved. It is possible that your child will be interviewed again or asked to testify in court. Explain to the child what the investigation and possible prosecutorial process will entail. Professionals involved in the investigation and the staff at the Children’s Advocacy Center can help you do this.