Tips for Fathers

• Become the most significant male figure in your child's life.
• Spend time with your baby. The more time you spend with them, the more you will understand their needs and feel competent in caring for her.
• Be available to your child. Listen to what your child is saying, and talk about what they think or feel.
• When you are together, give your child all your attention. Don't try to watch TV or do other activities.
• Tell stories or read to your child every day.
• Give your child nurturing gestures such as smiles or hugs.
• Hold, gently rock, or sing lullabies to your infants.
• Build your child's confidence. Affirm your child after playing a game. Notice your child's gifts and talents. Tell your child something you like about them regularly.
• Reassure your child and help them feel safe. Comfort your child when he is having problems and assure him that someone will always be there for him.
• Take an active role in your child's education. Know your child's teachers, visit school, and praise your child's progress.
• Help set discipline guidelines and rules so your child learns to set limits.
• Have fun with your child. Celebrate the joy of being a father.
• Build a relationship early. It is easier to build then to make up for lost time later.

Be consistent with your child. It brings order to their world.